Start Strong or Stick With It?

I found this in my Success magazine and it really hit home.  As a lifetime dieter, I’ve started many diets.  While getting started is important, it’s more important to keep going, especially when you’ve decided to make lifetime, healthy changes.

Don’t Flare Out!

Here is what Darren Hardy, the editor of Success, says in his article “Accomplish More by Doing Less”.

“I used to get frustrated when starting a new venture and then seeing the competition leap out in front and get off to a fast and successful start.  Then I found the single discipline that gave me the advantage to beat anybody at almost anything–consistency.

A lot of people get gung-ho about new goals or achievements and charge out of the gate in an explosion of activity that eventually flares out.  If you make a commitment to consistency, you’ll not only catch your competitors, but you’ll usually leave them in the dust every time.  (emphasis added)  I do what I have found most people cannot–stay consistent.”

“Great Stealer of Dreams”

“Lack of consistency is the subtle but great stealer of dreams and desires. The stop-and-start process is what kills progress in any pursuit. (from Kari:  ESPECIALLY DIETING!)  It is probably one of the greatest reasons people don’t ultimately achieve their goals and end up living lives of discontent, frustration and disappointment.”

What Can You Maintain?

So, in order to be successful with changing your exercise and eating habits, pick small goals, things you can maintain, and be consistent with for the rest of your life, no matter what you’re doing.

This is a concept I  incorporated into my weight loss program, Weight Loss University.  With weekly coaching sessions, you learn a new concept, a new part of being healthy, each week.  Then you have a week to practice the new concept (like eating more protein and finding healthy protein sources), learn about it, and ask me questions. This is a great way to gradually incorporate real, long-term habits into your life that you will be able to maintain and stay consistent with forever, not just a season.

If you’re interested in finding out more, and getting a free 2-week trial to my weight loss program, visit my site, Free-Weight-Loss-CD.com.

How To Lose Those Last 10 Pounds, Part 3: Obstacles

Invariably you will have obstacles, challenges, and questions when beginning a weight loss program.  It’s smart if you address these before they come up.

When you know your challenges, it’s not as discouraging when they come up.  You’re prepared.  You’ll be mentally and physically ready to deal with the challenge and move past it–quickly!

Constraints At Work

The most often quoted excuse is after working all day in the office or at work, where will I find the energy or time to devote to a weight loss program?

It doesn’t really matter whether you have a hotshot career that keeps you on your toes all day long or have a job where you spend every day counting the minutes till closing hour; you are spending most of your time at work.

You may even have a job that involves constant physical work and you may be under the impression that this is an excellent way of making sure the calories never add up.  It may surprise you to find that this is an illusion and true weight control or weight loss requires a proper diet and regular workouts.

Let’s see how your work can affect your fitness plans. No matter how much you love or hate your job, many people spend most of the day or night–or both– working on it.  More time is lost in getting ready for work, commuting to and from work, maybe taking some work home.

Further, have you ever thought of how much time you spend thinking about work even if you’re not actually in the office? You may be thinking of upcoming presentations and deadlines or worrying about your new boss. Some people try to relieve themselves of work-related stress by turning to food or alcohol, all contributing to more weight gain.

For most people, work is a major factor that prevents them from sticking to a regular workout routine and from having well-balanced meals three times a day. In fact work may even make matters worse with stress causing weight gain in many.

Despite this, it is still possible to schedule workout plans and find recipes for nutritious meals that one can manage in whatever little time is available.

Constraints At Home

If you live alone, your time is entirely yours! You have great flexibility in deciding how you would like to spend your free time. You can decide what you would like to eat, when you would like to eat and when you would like to workout. With few constraints, you can devise an ideal weight control plan and make full use of your freedom!

On the other hand, for those with families and especially with little children, your time is seldom yours. You need to give consideration to everyone in the family. For example, forget about skipping a meal if you are not feeling hungry – almost everyone else will be ravenously hungry.

If you are all stepping out for dinner, no one is in the mood to go to a health bar.  And you will have a tougher time taking some time out for yourself if you have kids.

In fact, most parents try to get up early, have more intense workouts and then get to work. The result is that they are short of sleep and the combined effect of less calories and more intense workouts leaves them very tired and with not enough energy to go through the day. This kind of schedule will certainly not lead to any true fitness and there are more chances that their health will suffer.

With these kinds of constraints it is never easy to stick to a regular schedule, be it for workouts or for planning meals. However, do not despair – there are some simple and straightforward solutions to the above dilemma.

In my next post, we’ll review some ways to deal with the above time/family/food issues to keep you on the right track.

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To Read Previous:

How To Lose Those Last 10 Pounds, Part 1: Getting Started  *

How To Lose Those Last 10 Pounds, Part 2: Knowing Why Before How

Losing Those Last 10 Pounds, Part 2: Why Before How

Knowing Why Before the How

Many people go through their weight-loss programs with great determination. They work on their diet and make sure they are eating the right foods and the right quantities. They diligently stick to their workout routines. And to their great happiness, they watch the pounds simply melting away. Then all of a sudden, the scale stops responding. They do not know what they did wrong. Their diet is the same and their workouts are the same but they seem unable to lose any more weight. And they are just 10 pounds away from that tantalizing goal they had set for themselves.

Many people give up at this point, thinking that they will never be able to lose those stubborn last pounds. However, the truth of the matter is that the last ten pounds are certainly more difficult to shed than say the first thirty.

Diet experts will explain that as you become slimmer, you will be burning lesser calories even while sticking with the same diet and exercises as before. In fact they claim that every time you lose a pound, your metabolism slows down and burns 20 calories less. That makes it difficult to burn away the remaining pounds by following the same diet and workouts. The good news is that you do not need to do anything drastic! All that is required is a slight tweaking of the weight loss program that you are already following and very soon you will be past your final weight loss goal.

It is however, very important that you be motivated enough to want to stick to your plan and follow it until the final goal is reached. And you can only stay motivated if you are doing this for the right reasons.

Many people quit their weight loss program halfway through or sometimes do not even get started because of sheer lack of self-confidence. They are not sure if they can manage with the kind of diet they will be expected to eat or have the time to spend in intense workout sessions.

Stay tuned for my next blog post and some typical reasons why many people don’t get started on their fitness plans or quit when they reach a plateau.  Don’t let this be you!  I’ll also give you some great solutions to blast past all your excuses.